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Concepts

Ideas and topics that help us understand our world.

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Meditation

Meditation is about taking time to slow down, be present, and listen to what's going on inside and around us. - Awe Walk

14 mentionsAugust 16, 2025

Love

"The word 'love' is most often defined as a noun, yet all the more astute theorists of love acknowledge that we would all love better if we used it as a verb." - bell hooks in All About Love "To begin by always thinking of love as an action rather than a feeling is one way in which anyone using the word in this manner automatically assumes accountability and responsibility." - bell hooks in All About Love

5 mentionsAugust 16, 2025

Anger

We understand anger as an emotion that reveals underlying feelings such as pain and grief. Anger shows us that something is wrong, that we feel unseen, misunderstood, or powerless.

11 mentionsAugust 16, 2025

Solitude

It can be a liberating process to learn to enjoy our own company and cultivating solitude as quality time with ourselves. "Solitude is for me a fount of healing which makes my life worth living." - Carl Jung

5 mentionsAugust 16, 2025

Transmutation

Transmutation describes the process of transforming how we feel by letting our emotions flow. - Stream of Consciousness Writing

6 mentionsAugust 16, 2025

Conflict Resolution

From being against each other to being with each other.

9 mentionsAugust 15, 2025

Attention

"What you pay attention to grows." - adrienne maree brown in Emergent Strategy "The most precious gift we can offer anyone is our attention. When mindfulness embraces those we love, they will bloom like flowers." - Thích Nhất Hạnh

15 mentionsAugust 15, 2025

Cancel Culture

We've dismissed the term cancel culture for a long time because we saw it mainly as a way for people who are confronted with making a mistake to evade accountability. What’s often forgotten is that the roots of this practice lie in Black liberation movements, where calling out harmful behavior publicly became a vital way to seek justice outside of systems that fail to protect marginalized communities. Over time, however, the term has been co-opted and repurposed—often by those in power—to deflect criticism. Rather than taking responsibility for the harm that was caused, people often focus on how the injustice is communicated. This shifts the attention away from the root of the issue. We believe it's crucial to listen to people experiencing violence and injustice, no matter how it is delivered. There should always be space for righteous anger.

5 mentionsAugust 15, 2025

Morning Routine

A morning routine can be helpful to start the day with intention.

6 mentionsAugust 15, 2025

Tools

Exercises and practices that help us shape our world.

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Gratitude Journaling

Gratitude journaling is a type of journaling that focuses on regularly writing down things we’re thankful for. By noticing and recording even small moments of joy, connection, or beauty, we train our attention toward what’s working rather than what’s lacking. Over time, this light work practice can shift our perception and deepen appreciation for everyday life.

5 mentionsAugust 16, 2025

Stream of Consciousness Writing

The technique stream of consciousness writing helps tap into the unconscious by writing down whatever comes to mind, ideally circumventing the conscious mind. The goal is to focus on just writing without questioning the content that is coming out. This technique can be beneficial for many things, including:

8 mentionsAugust 16, 2025

Low Dopamine Morning

A Low Dopamine Morning is a morning routine that aims to minimize exposure to external stimuli and distractions. This practice is based on the insight that the amount of dopamine released immediately after waking up influences how much dopamine our brain will seek throughout the day.

3 mentionsAugust 16, 2025

Idle Mode

Idle Mode can be a helpful practice when other forms of meditation feel a bit forced and structured. It can help take the pressure off. This practice helps you give yourself permission to do nothing and let your thoughts wander freely. A notebook can assist by allowing you to write down your thoughts and process whatever arises during the experience. In this way, the method is also a form of stream of consciousness writing.

2 mentionsAugust 16, 2025

Affirmations

Affirmations are short, positive statements that help reframe thoughts and reinforce desired beliefs and intentions. By repeating them regularly, we can affect how our consciousness perceives ourselves and the world around us. Since affirmations are typically used to shift thoughts and perceptions toward positive outcomes, they can be seen as a light work technique.

4 mentionsAugust 6, 2025

Deepest Fear Inventory

Deepest Fear Inventory is a stream of consciousness writing exercise popularized by Carolyn Lovewell in her book Existential Kink. The goal of this exercise is to:

1 mentionJuly 16, 2025

Resources

Books and other resources that we recommend.

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Book: Nonviolent Communication - A Language of Life

This book by Marshall B. Rosenberg describes Nonviolent Communication (NVC) as philosophy and method. Nonviolent Communication is a process with the goal to focus our attention on four pieces of information:

3 mentionsAugust 9, 2025

Book: Polysecure

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern is "the first book to explicitly translate the principles of attachment theory to nonmonogamous relationships." "Again and again, I have experienced the power of love to heal, to bridge, to connect and to awaken, as well as the trauma that ensues in its absence."

0 mentionsAugust 8, 2025

Report: Repression of Palestine Solidarity in Germany

The report "Repression of Palestine Solidarity in Germany" was published in July 2025. It documents the heavy repression Palestinians and people in solidarity with Palestine face in Germany, especially when protesting against the genocide.

0 mentionsAugust 7, 2025

Book: Emergent Strategy

Emergent Strategy by adrienne maree brown explores change and organizing with principles inspired by nature and science fiction, especially the writings of Octavia Butler. Learn more about the concept here: Emergent Strategy.

3 mentionsAugust 6, 2025

Book: We Will Not Cancel Us

We Will Not Cancel Us: And Other Dreams of Transformative Justice is a book by adrienne maree brown that explores cancel culture within abolitionist movements. "With each of the pieces in this collection, my goal is to bring transformative justice to life within our movement spaces–not as a futurist theory we are demanding from the larger world, but as a practice we are rigorously in with each other as believers, growing the capacity to invite other into."

3 mentionsAugust 6, 2025

Article Series: Because We Need Each Other

"Because We Need Each Other: Conversations on Cancel Culture" is an article series by Erika Sasson, Celia Kutz, Kazu Haga, and Shilpa Jain that was published on The Forge and Convergence. You can access the full series here.

1 mentionAugust 6, 2025